“We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success. We often discover what will do by finding out what will not do, and probably he who never made a mistake never made a discovery.” – Samuel Smiles
Whether their desire’s to change their lives, or change changing themselves, most people just don’t care enough. They don’t try enough. They don’t want it enough.
When faced with a lifetime as they are, as they live, they’re not willing perhaps or able maybe to get so angry, so frustrated, so furious even, that they’d do anything to be and become better…
“We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.” – John Dryden
“You cannot depend upon anybody. There is no guide, no teacher, no authority. There is only you, your relationship with others and with the world. There is nothing else. When you realize this, it either brings great despair, from which comes cynicism and bitterness, or, in facing the fact that you and nobody else is responsible for the world and for yourself, for what you think, what you feel, how you act, all self-pity goes.” – Jiddu Krishnamurti