The Fear of Change

Change in lifeThose who’ve followed this site for a while, or read my guest post at Tiny Buddha on the fear of change, know that I have been planning on something huge and scary in my life.

I’ve been planning on moving…


“Nothing can work me damage except myself.  The harm that I sustain I carry about with me, and am never a real sufferer but by my own fault.” – Saint Bernard of Clairvaux.

Following the Rules is Lame As Fuck

follow the rules

I had a problem when I was young.  And it kept me from ever feeling at ease in the world, from living comfortably in my own skin, from ever being my best Self.  It prevented me from being Me, and it meant that my will and desires were always subjugated to those of the people and world around me.

Maybe you have it too…


“I have no time to quarrel, no time for regrets, and no man can force me to stoop low enough to hate him.” – Laurence Jones

Your Vision Creates Your Future

vision in lifeHear that?  That’s the sound of me aging.  Seriously.  So old now.  Wait…even older now.  You too, though.  But it’s especially noticeable for me, today, on this day my parents tell me is my birthday.  Why?  Because, if you’re like me, birthdays make you think…